Last night we went to visit a family from Iraq. It had been a while since we had seen them but we wanted to encourage them. They need to be in church. But church is hard. Especially Arabic churches in Belgium. People come on Sundays for different reasons…maybe because it’s just tradition, maybe it’s to get out of the house and see people and then there are the precious few who really, honestly, deep down want to be a part of the Kingdom of God. How do I know there are only a precious few? Well, we have been talking a lot about the Kingdom of God lately and last week I asked them to raise their hands if they felt like they were in the Kingdom or even knew how to get there. Precious few.
So what we end up with is a lot of people (in all the Arabic churches in Belgium…and probably many other churches around the world of all people groups) playing the role of a Christian but not actually following Jesus. And if you ask me, that is where things get messy.
The world starts judging Christ by those who are self-proclaimed followers. But what if the self-proclaimed followers aren’t really following Jesus. What does an unbelieving world say about that?
That brings me to the conversation we had with our Iraqi friends. She said, “I am sorry Janée, but Americans just don’t like Arabs.” I took no offense because I will never forget going “home” in my early years of living in Belgium. I would talk in churches and before I could even open my mouth in a Sunday School class, the prayer requests would be announced against those people over there and for our military. The anti-Arab sentiment was clear, even in churches.
And not long after my friend made this observation, she asked if I saw the news in America. It was Monday and she was asking about something that happened on Saturday. I said no, unsure of what she would tell me but I knew it wasn’t going to be good. A 71 year old landlord violently stabbed a 6 year old Palestinian American boy and his mother. He died. She will probably survive…and later wish she hadn’t. Apparently the older man didn’t like the war happening in the Middle East. Apparently he vocally wished all Muslims harm. And he apparently hung multiple crosses that were seen at the boy’s memorial.
He is not only being brought up on murder charges but also for hate crimes. But wait, he hung up crosses. Isn’t he a Christian? How can he hate? That’s probably exactly what an unbelieving world is asking. Aren’t Christians called to love?
Yes. The answer is YES. So what does love look like? Well, love is patient. Goodness, isn’t God so patient with each of us and God IS love. Patience…walking slowly with others and showing them the love and light of Jesus with every action and word, praying that they will one day see Jesus as the hope of their own life. That’s love.
Love is not arrogant or rude. Love sees the person who is in front of them. Love understands that we personally have nothing to boast about…we can only boast in Jesus. He is the reason we are who we are and have the ability to be who we are. It’s really all about Him and nothing about us, so how in the world could we be arrogant?
Love endures all things. Endure is a military word for staking ground. And love does that, it stakes ground. It’s consistent and loves the person regardless of what that person says or does.
But love does not have to accept everyone’s version of “truth”. Love doesn’t have to agree with everyone all the time. Love doesn’t water down the Word of God in attempt to not offend someone else.
We are living in messy times. We are living in a time when the kingdom of the world is bleeding into the Kingdom of God. Brennan Manning once said, “The greatest single cause of atheism [or any other worldview apart from a biblical one] in the world today is Christians who acknowledge Jesus with their lips and walk out the door and deny Him by their lifestyle. That is what an unbelieving world simply finds unbelievable.”
It’s time for the Church to rise up and live like citizens of the Kingdom. May we cover ourselves with God’s love for one another…even for the neighbor who is nothing like us. Love, not hate.